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If the confirmation email didn't reach you it must have been filtered out on the way to you (did you check under spam or in the promotions tab?).

Please make sure that Colin-and-Frank@ViralURL.com is whitelisted (add it to your address book) and send a complaint to your ISP or web host about this issue if necessary.

Another option would be to switch to a free Gmail.com or ViralinBox.com email address if you are not using one of those already and change your registered email address.